26 September 2010

Mothers who commit crimes

Who is a Mother?

A mother is a woman who has conceived, given birth to, or raised a child in the role of a parent..Because of the complexity and differences of a mothers' social, cultural, and religious definitions and roles, it is challenging to define a mother to suit a universally accepted definition. 

Can a mother who carried the child for 9 months, gave birth to the child, be a good mother?Does she has that maternal bond with her child? The maternal bond between a human female and her biological child usually begins to develop during pregnancy, with her normally adapting her lifestyle to suit the needs of the developing infant. Beginning around 18 to 25 weeks, the mother also can feel the fetus moving, which can enhance bonding, as can seeing her baby during an ultrasound scan.The developing fetus hears the mother's heart beat and voice and may respond to touch or movement. By the seventh month of pregnancy, two-thirds of women may report a strong maternal bond. The process of childbirth ideally greatly adds to this bond - though that is not always the case, as every birth and every mother is unique. Situational factors may include a traumatic birth, the pregnant woman's own mother's parenting style, experienced stress, social support, and the influence of the partner.

So is it true a mother's love is supposed to be instinctual, unconditional, and forever?

This is not the case for the four years old little girl (read more here) who her own mother killed her! Her own mother locked her in the bathroom until she suffocated in the smoke. Cant her mother hear her screaming for help, screaming for her mommy to save her? Sedangkan binatang sayangkan anaknya, inikan manusia yang mempunyai otak!

There is another type of a mother who chose lover over her own child. 

There is also another type of mother who disposed their own child just to cover up the unwed pregnancy.  The moment a child is born, the mother is also born.  She never existed before.  The woman existed, but the mother, never.  A mother is something absolutely new. I guess in this case, she doesn't have the maternal bond with her child since she "throw away" her own newborn baby.
These types of mothers should be punished,  patut terima hukuman di dunia dan di akhirat.

1 comment:

Liza said...

well said dott, i don't get it as well. i tgk anak i kena gigit semut pun dah risau...